Remembering Fredrick Golden “Fred” Williams.
1929 - 2021
My name is Jacob Farny and I dedicate this memorial site to Fred Williams; A wonderful human being and someone near and dear to my heart. I first met Fred in 2001 when I was 12. Lacking any kind of self-awareness, I decided to wander over uninvited on a bright summer’s day while Fred was feeding his horses. I loudly proclaimed over his fence that I was the Farny boy from next door. I was curious to learn more about Fred’s menagerie of farm animals and he was more than willing to put up with my nosey behavior.
In the years that followed, I formed a close connection with Fred due to his love of animals, woodcarving, and his passion for teaching children.
I think of Fred as a grandpa and I am forever grateful for the time we got to spend together.
Fred’s Words of Wisdom
Over the years I’ve heard Fred tell many stories chock full of advice on how to live one’s life to the fullest. Those lessons have had a direct impact on who I am today and I’d like to share some of them with you as a dedication to Fred and a commitment to pass these learnings on whenever I can. Some are more silly than insightful but even the silly ones have something important to say about honest and simple living, which was ultimately what Fred believed in.
Recognizing the beauty and humor in every day life.
Fred had a knack for simplifying the complexities of life in a way that showed great compassion of all living things. Fred wasn’t big on giving rules or prescribed solutions. Instead, he taught how to gain a positive perspective on life and how to measure the success of things that truly matter.
Caring for children.
Fred had a real passion for teaching children. He seemed to possess an infinite amount of patience and always took the time to listen and to understand. When you were with Fred you had his full attention, always.
Overcoming adversity.
Fred grew up during the Great Depression which had a lasting impact on how he approached problem solving in life. Instead of lamenting on those times, Fred tended to look for the silver lining in any hardship. I believe Fred had the ultimate growth mindset and I don’t think he believed in an obstacle that couldn’t be overcome with the right support and a positive mindset.
Taking pride in your work.
Fred didn’t just do things for fun. He competed in competitions and wanted to be excellent at anything he gave his time and energy to. Even after losing most of his sight, Fred continued to compete and win in wood carving competitions. I used to watch him shape a new piece almost completely by feel and he never made excuses for his limited vision or anything else. Fred’s ability to manifest his creative visions into real-world works of art was truly awe inspiring and inspirational to behold.
Finding happiness in relationships.
I think what made Fred so great at connecting with people was his capacity for empathy. Knowing yourself and knowing others was very important to Fred and a common tenet in his stories of life, love, and happiness. Fred cared deeply for the people in his life and made sure they felt loved.
The end.
I hope you found at least a few quotes to cherish and keep with you. If you want to add more quotes or photos, please email me at jcfarny@gmail.com